{"id":1031,"date":"2021-06-03T17:19:07","date_gmt":"2021-06-03T17:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/myfigtree.com\/dans-sandbox\/?page_id=1031"},"modified":"2023-10-21T23:17:50","modified_gmt":"2023-10-21T23:17:50","slug":"connect","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/connect\/","title":{"rendered":"Connections"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Connection is the solution to addiction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-medium-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">When we came to recovery we realised we had been looking for connection in all the wrong places.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Acting out partners didn&#8217;t give us what we needed, so we looked for other people or other behaviours. Eventually we ended up here and we have learnt that connection  with other sex addicts helps us to focus on recovery and stay sober. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Connection replaces the addictive sexual behaviours we used to rely on.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-small-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>The SAA Women&#8217;s Outreach Committee<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Our m<em>ission is: \u201cTo reach out to all women who desire to stop addictive sexual behavior; to assist these women in connecting with other SAA women; to provide a safe place for women to reach out to other women for support and sponsorship; and to give women a voice in the SAA fellowship.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Contacts around the world<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">This is a list of women-specific contacts taken from International and state-wide (Intergroup) websites. There are 61 Intergroups and most have a one email\/phone number for all genders. If you ask to speak with a woman they can put you in touch. Remember it&#8217;s safe to speak to sexually sober men as long as both people respect each others&#8217; boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table has-small-font-size\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Contact<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Email<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Phone<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>International questions<\/td><td>womensoutreach@saa-recovery.org<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>International women contacts<\/td><td>grace@saa-women.org<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>United Kingdom<\/td><td>women@saauk.info<\/td><td>(+44) 07766 075247<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Ottowa<\/td><td>women@saaottawa.org<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Dallas<\/td><td>dallaswomensgroup@gmail.com<\/td><td>(+1) 469-454-0565<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Florida<\/td><td><\/td><td>&nbsp;(+1) 407-906-7221<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Central Florida<\/td><td><\/td><td>(+1) 407) 906-7221<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Austin<\/td><td>women@saa-austin.org<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Vancouver<\/td><td>women@saavancouver.org<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Bay Area, San Francisco<\/td><td><\/td><td>(+1) 510 426-6420<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Colorado<\/td><td>susanbxaxanon@gmail.com<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Women&#8217;s Intergroup<\/td><td>SAAwomensIG@gmail.com<\/td><td><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Portland, Oregon<\/td><td><\/td><td>(+1)971 266 0777<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">There are many places to find connections:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Several groups maintain lists of members seeking and providing contact information. (Women&#8217;s Outreach, Telemeeting Intergroup, LGBT Outreach). We often use the term &#8216;outreach&#8217; for contacting people in the program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-list\">\n<li>Women can request the Grace List of women wanting connection. by emailing <a><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">grace@saa-women.org<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>International or state-wide groups (Intergroups) may have contacts for women only. Check the <a href=\"https:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/intergroups\/\">Intergroup page<\/a> list.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>See <a href=\"http:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/ForWomen\">Women&#8217;s Outreach<\/a> website for more information.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/women\/contacting-other-women\/\">Contacting women<\/a> on the international website.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>LGBT Support List if you identify as LGBTQ+, email <a href=\"mailto:lgbt@saa-recovery.org\">lgbt@saa-recovery.org<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-white-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Meetings<br><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">We also connect at meetings with men and women. Listening to stories, looking for the similarities in our experiences and hearing the joy of recovery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Women-only meetings, either <a href=\"https:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/womens-telemeetings\/\">Telemeetings<\/a> or<a href=\"http:\/\/myfigtree.com\/dans-sandbox\/index.php\/local-womens-meetings\/\"> <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/localmeetings\/\">local (face-to-face)<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Meetings might have email or phone lists of members who would like to be contacted.  They will also be able to put you in touch with other women they know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Mixed gender <a href=\"http:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/telemeeting-contacts\/\">Telemeeting contact list<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Mixed gender &#8211; Intimacy and Sexual Avoidance contact information is included in <a href=\"http:\/\/saatalk.info\/us\/resources\/resource?xresource[id]=52\">ISA Resources<\/a> or email <a href=\"mailto:avoidance@saa-recovery.org\" data-type=\"mailto\" data-id=\"mailto:avoidance@saa-recovery.org\">avoidance@saa-recovery.org<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">It&#8217;s important for men and women to protect their boundaries to stay sexually sober. Have a look at our page on <a href=\"https:\/\/saaforwomen.org\/index.php\/safety\/\">safety<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Read about connecting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/NewsLetter2020-11.pdf\">How to cope with isolation<\/a> on page 6 in&nbsp;The&nbsp;Outer Circle for November &#8211; December 2020<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/NewsLetter2021-03.pdf\">Belonging when you don\u2019t hear stories like your own<\/a> on page 6, in&nbsp;The Outer Circle for March &#8211; April 2021<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/NewsLetter2020-05.pdf\">What to do when family and friends don\u2019t support recovery<\/a> on page 6, in&nbsp;The Outer Circle for May -June 2020<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/saa-recovery.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/NewsLetter2017-01.pdf\">Travel, open-mindedness needed for face-to-face meetings<\/a> on page 14, in&nbsp;The Outer Circle for January &#8211; February 2017<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/indiana-saa.org\/images\/resources\/Check-IN-Winter-2021.pdf\">The need for intimate connections<\/a>, pages 5-6, IISAA quarterly &#8220;The Check IN&#8221;, Winter 2021<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/indiana-saa.org\/images\/resources\/Check-IN-Spring-2021.pdf\">Twelve-Step connections<\/a>, page 5, IISAA quarterly The Check IN, Winter 2021<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Connection is the solution to addiction When we came to recovery we realised we had been looking for connection in all the wrong places. Acting out partners didn&#8217;t give us what we needed, so we looked for other people or other behaviours. 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